In the House of Modern Upbringing for Girls - Paperback

by Majda Gama (Author)

Winner of the Wandering Aengus Book Award, In the House of Modern Upbringing for Girls is Majda Gama's first full-length poetry collection.

In the House of Modern Upbringing for Girls vividly chronicles girlhood, womanhood, personhood, humanhood, the passage of time, the indelibility of history, and the grief and joy of being in this world and on this earth. It's a beautifully midlife book, with all the wisdom and none of the clich?s. Majda Gama looks back to her 1980s childhood in oil-boom Jidda and Reagan-era Northern Virginia, to her 1990s young adulthood in a now-gone punk-rock Washington, D.C., and other cities, and to the echoes of history in Ba'albek and the Emirati desert. On every page, we witness a life lived and observed in brave detail. This collection is a treasure.

-Eman Quotah, Arab American Book Award-winning author of Bride of the Sea

If you could craft a poetry collection combining a rock n' roll soundtrack to a young girl's coming of age in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia in the 1970s and 1980s with the underground punk scenes of Washington D.C. and New York City in the 1980s/90s, it would be this book. Majda Gama lyrically elegizes a life through the specificity of music and place, where each "city is a song," where even a beachy landscape unfolds to "the falsetto of the latest Wham single." Qur'anic verses and classical Arabic literature are weaved seamlessly with Joan Jett and Television lyrics; marbled courtyards give way to black leather jackets and pet rats. Gama anthologizes times and places that are no more and hard to imagine ever were, given that "now there is a sameness / to every dark corner we will gather in." There is at once a sense of loss and of freedom in the state of being "born untethered" and yet not immune to geopolitics, intimate and global. In the House of Modern Upbringing for Girls is a fresh and moving debut from a writer who has lived multiple lives and gifts us its poignant and rhythmic sojourn.

-Sahar Muradi, author of OCTOBERS, selected by Naomi Shihab Nye for the 2022 Donald Hall Prize for Poetry

From the "cataracts of Gods" to the tiny bones scattered throughout this book, Majda Gama's poetics exerts pressure at the spaces of resistance, the cartilage between ribs, the held breaths between stanzas, the lacunae of childhood. Mining the poetics of between and barely, the poet traces the spaces between the familial self (coming from Saudi/KSA) and the american self across reflective and self-reflexive surfaces. The anthropological reverberations made me think of Michael Taussig's statement that "the shortest way between two points, between violence and its analysis, is the long way round, tracing the edge sideways like the crab scuttling." Riding the sidereal and the sideways edge into wonder and terror, Gama's In the House of Modern Upbringing for Girls undid me completely.

-Alina Ştefănescu, author of Dor and My Heresies

Gama sketches her family's origins as she drafts her own maps of the self: the influence of Punk, the hold of Bronze Age artifacts on the imagination. In her poetry, stories are alive and must be kept alive; their little boxes must have holes for breathing. Collecting with a humbled apprehension, she gathers story after story in this reliquary, each a sacred artifact.

-David Keplinger, author of Ice and The World to Come